This is a battle between an early-game diver and a scaling tank. Jarvan IV wants to snowball via aggressive invades and early ganks, while you want to reach mid-game teamfights where your CC chain is superior. Your is the key to surviving his initial burst and armor shred.
This is a heavy-weight melee brawl. JarvanIV wants to chunk you with poke and burst you with his flag combo, while you want to survive his initial hit with and win long trades with stuns.